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Composite Mercury harmonizing with Composite Sun
Your relationship may not be so much an emotional relationship as it is an intellectual one. Yours is perhaps a relationship where you can exchange thoughts and ideas, study, research, spend hours in conversation and enjoy mental stimulation rather than physical. For you, sex takes place mentally rather than physically. Rather than having an emotional rapport, you may be more detached and logical in your relationship.

Your conversations will be excellent and since you have so much in common, you probably think the same ways about life in general. You will have no trouble understanding what the other person is talking about. There are very meaningful discussions indicated here and should you be involved in creative or business ventures together, then this aspect is an added boost for the conception of new ideas. You have the ability to separate your individual egos from the discussions you have together so that they do not get in the way of your hearing what your partner is trying to say.

You can feel very close to each other with this aspect, without feeling vulnerable, and doing your “own thing” will be a prerequisite for the two of you. Trips and travel, whether local or long distance, are also part of this aspect. Sitting still may be difficult for you both.

Composite Mercury discordant to Composite Sun
Your relationship may not be so much an emotional relationship as it is an intellectual one. Yours is perhaps a relationship where you can exchange thoughts and ideas, study, research, spend hours in conversation and enjoy mental stimulation rather than physical. For you, sex takes place mentally rather than physically. Rather than having an emotional rapport, you may be more detached and logical in your relationship.

Your conversations may be difficult since, although you have much in common, yet the two of you tend to view things entirely different you simply differ in your individual opinions. You will have problems understanding what the other person is talking about even though there are very meaningful and heated discussions indicated here. Should you be involved in creative or business ventures together, then this aspect is an added boost for the conception of new ideas, but you will likely disagree on which ones to use.

Composite Mercury harmonizing with Composite Venus
Lighthearted, pleasing conversations permeate your environment. You enjoy the company of special friends, and if they share your flair for art, music, literature or if they have creative backgrounds, so much the better. Social occasions, fun and entertainment are likely to be your keywords.

Communication will be a strong suit between the two of you, especially regarding objects of beauty, music, art, love and romance. Both of you share common interests in these and other related areas.

You will enjoy telling each other how you feel and you prefer doing so in the written form of cards and letters. At best you will avoid anything that is too ponderous, choosing to keep your conversations light and loving.

If there are arguments at all, you both will make them as sweet as possible so that you don’t offend the other. You are sensitive to your partner’s feelings and you will say what needs to be said, but in a way that doesn’t hurt the other. This aspect helps smooth out any rough edges in your relationship.

Composite Mercury discordant to Composite Venus
Communication will be a strong suit between the two of you, especially regarding objects of beauty, music, art, love and romance. Both of you share common interests in these and other related areas.

You will enjoy telling each other how you feel and you prefer doing so in the written form of cards and letters. At best you will avoid anything that is too ponderous, choosing to keep your conversations light and loving.

If there are arguments at all, you both will make them as sweet as possible so that you don’t offend the other. You are sensitive to your partner’s feelings and you will say what needs to be said, but in a way that doesn’t hurt the other. This aspect helps smooth out any rough edges in your relationship.

Composite Mercury harmonizing with Composite Mars
Right from the start you may have noticed that heated debates and arguments are sexual turn-ons for you and your partner. There seems to be no end to the ways you challenge each other’s thinking and you love to compete on how much you know intellectually. A wonderful playfulness emerges from these conversations and if one thing leads to another, then so much the better. One thing is for sure, you will never be at a loss for words when you are around each other.

Your communication will be very open, direct and frank, and very little of your opinion will be withheld from the other. If you believe that there are times when a little white lie will help spare hurt to your partner’s feelings, then you’d better learn to forget it. That won’t happen here. At least try to sugar coat it a little bit so you are not quite so offensive.

Composite Mercury discordant to Composite Mars
Heated debates, mental sparring and even some down-and-dirty arguments are sure to play a major role in your relationship. There will be no beating around the bush here, as you try to “tell” your partner what you are thinking, rather than explaining it. Disputes, frustration and verbal abuse can be the result of these communications, not so much because you differ in opinion, but because of the ways in which you express yourself to your partner.

Right from the start this relationship might feel like the Battle of Gettysburg as you come under verbal attack and are criticized about every little thing that is important or that which has absolutely no importance at all. Unless you both work on being nicer to each other, this is going to be a very difficult relationship in the communication department. And that will, of course, spill over to all the other areas in your relationship.

There is the tendency here to fight for fighting’s sake and your partner always seems to be the closest opponent and the nearest punching bag. You will both need to develop more patience and self-control because each of you has the tendency to be too sensitive to your partner’s little irritating habits.

Composite Mercury harmonizing with Composite Jupiter
This relationship should be a real education for you. Your being together will either help you explore views of the world that you may have never seen before or it will offer new intellectual stimulus for learning something new.

Whether your relationship is for social or business purposes, this aspect is wonderful and beneficial to you both. There is an added hope and optimism in you that magnifies all of your good qualities and, in the long run, you will be very good for each other. At the same time, you may also find that religious or theological expansion is a very important part of your lives as you delve deeper into the mysteries of life.

This aspect gives you both a greater tolerance and acceptance of your partner’s ideas and attitudes. It makes mutual communication much more pleasant and you will grow intellectually because of the friendly environment in which you feel you can exchange viewpoints and opinions.

Composite Mercury discordant to Composite Jupiter
There are usually no serious detriments with this aspect. Areas you need to watch have to do with becoming overly idealistic regarding things in your relationship. Expecting too much out of each other and your relationship can cause problems. You both may have the tendency to promise more than you can actually deliver. By keeping your expectations under control, you can keep the real problems between you at a manageable level. Blowing up things beyond proportion can cause you to lose perspective of the good things in your relationship.

Take care not to take risks that are too wild to ever come true, especially in finances, where you can overextend yourselves and cause financial difficulties. If you were always too timid or shy in taking chances, then this aspect can easily throw you in the other direction, as you throw caution to the wind, along with your money, never to see it again. You always see the pot of gold on the horizon together and failure never seems to stop you from trying. In your eyes hope is eternal and just around the next corner is where “our” fortune lies. Even after failure, you seem to experience some good luck that has you bouncing back to try again.

You never seem to be comfortable with where you are, or what you have, always trying to do better than expectations will allow. Travel may play a large role in your lives, either for educational, spiritual or religious purposes or perhaps just for simply having plain fun.

Composite Mercury harmonizing with Composite Saturn
This aspect might be better for a business partnership than for a romantic relationship because everything you discuss will tend to have a very dry, humorless, get-down-to-the-facts, just the facts, tone to it. But at least you are not prone to unrealistic fantasies about your partner and there is probably no danger in being overly idealistic about your future together. You have the ability to plan and organize your lives and your future and that is a good thing. Just don’t get so cautious that you stop taking a few well-calculated chances. Life needs some excitement to make it fun – and there is nothing wrong with a little fun now and then. Unless both of you are very rigid and practical, love research or are very focused, then you might find that your relationship is running out of steam after a while because it lacks playfulness or humor. If you feel you need a more disciplined lifestyle, then this aspect is ideal for you.

Composite Mercury discordant to Composite Saturn
There may be some very difficult problems in communication with this aspect. Understanding your partner’s perspective on any issue or being open-minded to new ideas may cause both of your difficulty unless you discuss this tendency and agree to work on it. There may be great trouble when it comes to agreeing on anything. One or the other of you is likely to be extremely unyielding and defensive, quite as if to tell you that you don’t know what you’re talking about. The outcome of this is total silence by one of you because of the pure frustration of not being listened to or heard at all. Then the danger is that one or both of you will simply stop trying to communicate with the other.

It will be hard work to have quality communication here but if you keep at it, it may become very worthwhile, unless, of course, other facets of your relationship suggest that you should just pass on it and simply move on.

Composite Mercury harmonizing with Composite Uranus
This is a wonderful aspect for two people who are working as one, trying to come up with inventive, creative or technological ideas. Being together is sure to be a “way-out” experience for both of you. You will learn many new things from your partner and together you will search unknown territory.

The intellectual stimulus between the two of you will be alive and it should be very much on the same wavelength. You may even come to the point where you have a complete understanding of what the other is thinking without them ever having to express their thoughts. This is nice added support in any relationship.

This aspect will certainly help you stay out of the ruts that a lot of relationships fall into. There should always be an excitement and mental stimulation between you and this will help you learn and grow as individuals.

Composite Mercury discordant to Composite Uranus
If you are looking for a relationship to uproot your pattern of thinking, mix in a little adventure, and experiment in the mind-blowing side of weird, then congratulations, you may have found it. New ideas, alternative ways of thinking, changing old patterns of thought and just plain bizarre behavior tend to go along with this aspect. Expect the unconventional and the ever-changing, frequently and suddenly.

Trying to communicate in stereo can’t happen so you will have to stop talking while the other person is talking so you don’t miss their train of thought. There is much nervous energy surrounding you both and together you can come up with some wonderful new ideas, perhaps far ahead of their time, and enjoy some excellent creative adventures together. But plan on taking a break from one another from time to time in order to repair your burned out brain cells and get some sanity back into your lives. There is so much stimulation and mental excitement between you that it may be difficult for you to settle down to the routine, everyday aspects and needs of your relationship. Because a certain amount of restlessness and anxiety go along with this aspect, you will need time to recuperate. So take it, even if it means getting away from each other at times.

A serious side to this aspect is that the two of you may constantly challenge and disagree with your partner’s viewpoint just for the sake of causing a commotion. At first this can be great fun and very exciting. But in the long run it may become very old and when one or the other of you tire of it, it may be too late to do anything about it because your partner will have already up and left. The two of you need to control the tendency of automatically disagreeing with the other’s viewpoint in order to keep some stability in the relationship.

Composite Mercury harmonizing with Composite Neptune
Your relationship is sure to be filled with fantasy, imagination and artistic, poetic or musical abilities or qualities. If you are looking for a totally practical, logical and organized relationship, then you have not found it here. Others are more likely to find you both staring at the ceiling, pondering the mysteries of the universe or lost in a dream world that only the two of you know about. There will be strong telepathic or non-verbal communication between you that only the two of you can hear or understand.

Your conversations may be focused on spiritual or metaphysical ideas. You will talk about your dreams and your ideals of what a perfect world would be like. The danger with this aspect, though, is that you need to be very honest with each other to avoid the possibility of misunderstanding, deception or illusion. The fantasy of your relationship is likely to be wonderful, but you need to come down to earth and take a look at the reality of it. You may be treating your partner as the person they are in your head rather than the person they really are reality. When the picture in your imagination falls off the pedestal, then a great deal of disappointment and disillusion can occur. This can wreak havoc on your relationship. You must be very clear with your partner as to your expectations and goals of your relationship. The more straight-forward and honest you can be, the better.

Another positive of this aspect is that you may share common interest in healing techniques, charitable work, or religious concerns. These activities can help bring the two of you closer together.

Composite Mercury discordant to Composite Neptune
You need to be very clear about what this relationship is all about because the tendency here is to get lost in miscommunication, lies, idealism, deception or illusion. Any hopes, dreams, fantasies or perceptions of what you think this relationship is likely to be are probably faulty. There may even be intentional deception and lies, with one of you purposely using the other for their own gain. You need to be very careful. Even if both of you have your feet on the ground, you may still go around shaking your heads in disbelief over the whole relationship.

There is nothing wrong with living out a fantasy or two from time to time, but you wouldn’t want to reside there full-time, as this aspect suggests you have the tendency of doing. No matter what the case, when all is said and done, one or both of you is likely to be very disappointed at length’s end.

There are going to be times when you don’t understand each other and even downright confuse each other, purposely or not. At other times you will feel that you have communicated something correctly, only to find out that the other person did not understand what you said, refused to hear the incoming message, or heard something quite different entirely from what you said. Trust is an important issue in this relationship and you would be well-advised to keep an eye on this matter as no relationship survives for long without it.

Yes, there is a positive side here. You can act to bring out one another’s creative side in writing, art or music through the use of your combined imaginations.


Composite Mercury harmonizing with Composite Pluto

One of the major effects that this relationship will have on you both is that it will change your thinking at very deep levels. Through long conversations you can act as psychoanalyst for each other by bringing up old problems and resolving them. Uncovering the mysteries of what makes your partner tick is exciting for each of you. Of course, there will be unpleasant things that you will learn about and with which you will have to deal. But, with every gain comes a loss and with every loss comes a gain.

Be careful of becoming so involved in an issue that you become obsessed and fanatical about it or that you try to convert or manipulate your partner’s thinking to your own. There is the possibility here that you will try to force your partner into thinking and believing the same way you do. Mental competition between you will only serve to break your relationship apart. The ways in which you communicate and the energy that both of you have are very strong and they can influence a great deal of people, so these energies must be used very responsibly.

Together you may choose to delve into the occult or to use the power of mind over matter. Just make sure the dark side does not win you over. If you get carried away in any of these areas, people may perceive you as a threat and bring danger to you. Should you heed the above warnings, then you can gain some very important truths about life, the universe and yourselves?

Composite Mercury discordant to Composite Pluto
Communication may be centered on digging out the truth in each other’s life and uncovering things about the other you would not dream to tell anyone else. You will cause each other to transform thoughts, feelings, beliefs and desires that have been buried for a very long time. This relationship will also have you questioning things that up until now were better off left alone. Because of this potent power you must be careful of manipulating your partner for your own purposes or trying to control their life and the way they think. Do not use the power of this aspect for psychological manipulation, brainwashing or for taking advantage of your partner’s weaknesses and vulnerabilities.

Together you may choose to delve into the occult or to use the power of mind over matter. Just make sure the dark side does not win you over. If you get carried away in any of these areas, people may perceive you as a threat and bring danger to you. Should you heed the above warnings, then you can gain some very important truths about life, the universe and yourselves?

Composite Mercury harmonizing with Composite Ascendant
This aspect indicates a great deal of understanding between you and communication with each other is easy and harmonious. You will not have the same difficulties that other people have when trying to convey their feelings to one another. Communication between you will be clear. You will know the right words to say at the right time. This relationship will also open up new experiences to both of you and you will benefit from them greatly. You will be more tolerant when difficulties arise between you as well as with others in your environment. Education, philosophy and sharing thoughts and ideas will be important to both of you and you will share a lot of interests together. Since Mercury also rules travel, a great deal of time will be spent together on-the-go. Mercury is a very restless planet and he can present some difficulties when trying to settle down in a relationship. How can you settle down when you are always on the go? This “problem” can be overcome, but this aspect makes your relationship more unpredictable. But, who wants predictable? Friends who share the same interests or those with whom you have an intellectual rapport will also play a big part in your family and personal lives as well.


Composite Mercury discordant to Composite Ascendant

You are more than likely to have some very strong and intimate conversations together. Intellectually you will understand each other and this will help form a stronger bond between you, the type of bond whereby you think as one person and naturally complement each other. At the same time, though, your discussions may lead you into some heated intellectual disagreements and arguments whereby you are sparring with each other as if you were in a contest of some sort. This aspect points to your relationship as one that is bent on intellectual games, challenges and contests, rather than one having normal conversations. You actually thrive on your partner feeding the conversation to fan the flames of debate, even though there will be pretenses of anger. No matter why you are together, you will either be competitors or peaceful partners. The amusing point here is that you may find it difficult to function without the other’s input. You may limit your conversations to only each other, thus leaving out a great deal of other people in your environment. Do not spend a lot of time over-analyzing your relationship, as Mercury is notorious for questioning things to death!

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